Submissive game ideas

Comment below! Every month I'll update you on the latest from Submissive Guide and you'll get first access to new resources, offers and events. Wanna hang out with other submissives and their partners? The object of the game? If you allow 2 hours of constant guessing per day that's 50 days to guess every combination!!!!! Step 2: Open Snapchat and take photos until the keyholder can legibly read one and have them screenshot the photo for safekeeping.

Step 3: Click the lock shut and you are at their mercy for a minimum of one hour. Step 4: Slather some Vaseline on the number dials to add a fun twist in dexterity.

And if you want to make it more difficult, there are screwholes inside the box. Screw it securely to an outdoor shed or up in the attic so it's really difficult to brute force the combination!

Give a friend a set of spare keys to hold onto for emergencies. Put the lock keys on the key chain and ask them to hold onto it for emergencies. See how long you can go without having to fake losing your keys and getting locked out! For an extra boost, see if you can find a way to quickly get somewhere private and take the lock off.

If you can't, give them back the keys right then and there, and realize how you held the keys in your hand, but never used them to unlock.

You were so close! Some of these sites allow the user to share a friend link online and let friends decide to either extend or shorten their chastity sentence. More often than not, sharing a friend link adds time! This one is really easy. The easiest way to keep keys out of reach is to leave them somewhere you can't immediately visit, such as:.

Having a partner or partners in chastity play can make everything significantly better. In addition, the Dominant can reap the rewards of focused attention, the ability to assign chores, controlling the pleasure of a submissive, and denying one of their pleasure while demanding their own pleasure. Here are some games to consider while playing with one or more partners. The Dominant can leave it up to chance at how long the submissive stays locked.

Here are some ideas:. In this scenario, the submissive is given a certain amount of time to achieve orgasm, such as 5 minutes. For every increment of time beyond that, say one minute, the submissive adds that many days to his or her chastity sentence for the next round. This can be adjusted as desired.

Want to go a step further? And a pleasurable one, at that. Every couple is free to determine the type and severity of punishments they want to use—and the options are essentially endless. Like with most deliciously kinky things, punishment is not just about pain, but also pleasure. Despite the connotation of punishing someone, the activity still requires enthusiastic consent from all parties; the punished wants to be punished, and the punisher wants to punish.

This is where you bring someone to the brink of orgasm, only to stop touching them right before orgasm. Oh, the sweet agony. Put them over your knee and show them what happens to naughty people who break the rules.

Just remember to aim for the fleshy parts of the body, such as the butt cheeks and upper thighs. Or, you could deny them a spanking.

Force your sub to agree to keep their pretty little mouth shut. You can go a step further by not allowing your submissive to speak while in a public place without asking permission first.

As such, blindfolds and hoods are just some of the most popular BDSM essentials around. Depriving one of your senses intensifies the other remaining sensory structures and so, in an attempt to even up, most would feel the intensity in their sense of smell or taste.

Going back to the blindfold, most that are sold have aesthetic considerations in mind but if you are good with just about anything, a scarf or a sleep mask would do just fine. Usually made of leather, a BDSM collar can also double up as a leash when needed but aside from these uses, collars are worn by the sub that is in a relationship signifying ownership.

Or to make it simple, it is a wedding ring in the world of BDSM. Floggers , riding crops, and paddles are very common examples of spanking tools. Each of these also has varying degrees of pain caused, starting with the floggers that causes just a little bit of pain to riding crops that are on the stingy part of the pain, to paddles that causes much of a thud than a sting.

Careful with the spanking tools as they can cause unwanted pain when incorrectly used but when the little girl is bad, daddy needs to spank!

Canes and rods are also spanking tools but cause much pain when incorrectly used so it is always wise to exercise caution while swinging and not get overly carried away with the spanking.

When canes and rods are causing that much pain, whips are on a different level. Get yourself practiced and your whip-expertise leveled up before using this on your SO. Nipple clamps can be a bit tad overwhelming for any beginner. Aside from it coming in different types, it can also be used in varying forms.

Some nipple clamps can be used for pleasure, some for breast torture, while others can be as a form of restraint. The sensations your SO feels depend on the type of nipple clamp you get as much as on the sensitivity of the nipple.

Playing the police officer in you, handcuffs can be so sizzling hot. A BDSM essential that is used to keep the arms together and contained, your handcuffed SO will not have any choice but to stay put and accept her destiny of hot, erotic sex! Its use is quite simple. The main reason for using a bondage rope is to keep your SO tied to furniture such as a bed, a couch, or a bench.

As dominant in this exercise, there is nothing that pleases you more than seeing your SO available, ready and accepting to your every whim. Take caution, though, and as mentioned earlier, you need to have a certain amount of knowledge on the art of rope bondage. Aside from the bratty lips, bondage tapes can also be used to keep in place thrashing arms or legs. One word of caution, though, is to make sure you do not impede the blood circulation.

Not too tight there! It adds extra restraint, just allowing you to penetrate whatever needs to be penetrated with so much ease. To the edge, hence, the term.